A lot of people thinks that when that special someone doesn’t love you anymore, you should move on with your life.
I beg to differ.
Yes, if your loved one has did something that offend you and there is no possibility of reconcialiation at all, then you are well advised to move on.
However, if you don’t know what happened and suddenly your relationship is going through storm, you should be man enough to stay the course.
Listen to what other people has to say, but take it with a pinch of salt. Commit to seek the truth.
And never ever punish your loved one for something you yourself does not understand.
Love,
Mr. S
p/s: To understand is easy, just ask your loved one, he or she should be able to explain with no problem if he or she is really sure what he or she wants or feels . But if that doesn’t help or he or she is confused too, you should be stronger and try to save the ship. Even if you are alone (at first).
March 26th, 2009 at 5:35 pm
nice one..
love it….
but i prefer move on than waiting..
hehehe..
March 27th, 2009 at 3:40 am
Jaez,
Yes, for girls I definitely recommend you to move on too.
But I think for guys, that’s where the phrase:
“Man enough to stay the course” come into play..
And of course, the guy should also know the fine line between persistence and plain stupidity.
Good luck!
Mr. S