1. Take a shower.

Looking fresh and smelling good can help you gain a good
first impression from your dates. This is true especially
if it’s your first time to go out on a date with a woman.

2. Don’t make her wait!

It’s important not to make the girl wait for a very long
time. Making her wait is not a good impression at all. It
might seem that you do not care about her, or you may look
unreliable and arrogant. Just get there earlier than
expected. You might even think of a great entrance for the
girl.

3. Be a gentleman.

Women feel special when they are with a gentleman. Now go
on and open doors for her and let her pass through first.
You pull her chair and go get her along with the people
around you.

4. Listen to what she’s saying.

Avoid talking too much about yourself. Let your date feel
that you are interested to know her. Listen to what she is
saying and maybe you will have an idea what to say next.

5. Offer to pay.

It is appropriate for you as a gentleman to offer to pay.
It may display an act of chivalry! However, other women
would like to pay half of the cost. Do not resist.

6. Drive safely on your way home.

Take her home safely. Avoid drinking too much on your first
date since you don’t want to ask her about driving your car
because you’re too drunk to drive.

Love,

Mr. S

-Enough about me, I want to know more about you-. This is a
simple line that can show your interest to your date. The
sincerity of truly wanting to know your date makes this
line much stronger and believable.

In a date, you surely will look and hope for good things
about the girl. Unfortunately, you will also see her
imperfections.

You should not expect your date to be perfect since this
will ruin the entire date because she may not live up to
your expectations.

You have to let her know and feel that her not so good
traits are just minor set backs for you. Let her feel that
no matter how the world would react about her not so good
traits, you are not ashamed of being with her.

Let her see and feel that you can get along with her. You
can smile, laugh, and even do crazy yet nice stuff with her
if possible.

Making her feel good about herself will help you earn her
respect. This will surely mold you into someone
unforgettable.

You may even become a gentleman in her eyes. She will
surely tell her friends about someone who makes her feel
comfortable.

Making someone feel good about herself in a date is one
honorable act that will provide you with a set of favorable
events that can lead to love and romance in the long run.

Love,

Mr. S

But how in the world would you know if the date would turn
out fine? You certainly wouldn’t know unless it’s over.

You notice that your prince charming is quite nervous on
your date. It looks like he had taken gallons of coffee
before the date.

It seems that long silence always gets between your
conversations. Prince charming then starts to look like he
is going to faint. This would turn out to be a bad date
unless you try helping him find his words a little.

Maybe he just needs a little push that can provide him with
the idea that you want to make this date a memorable one.

Usually, the first date involves going to movies, having
lunch, or spending dinner with a lot of sharing. Dates like
these just need a little jump-start to be more effective.

Try suggesting some activities that involve fun and
adventure.

Let your prince charming know that you are okay with him.
Try helping him get to his words or unfold his plans for
your date.

Help him by telling the stuff you want to do and the things
you want to try. Places you want to go or places you want
him to see would be very good things to tell your date if
you want to loosen him up a bit and have fun on your date.

Help your date in conquering the limitations that separate
him from you. Help him break the ice. After some time, he
may be starting to feel okay and loosen up a bit.

Afterwards, he could then start living up to your knight in
shining armor dreams.

Love,

Mr. S

Every man claims that he loves his girlfriend. But people close to me know for a fact that I am ultra loyal to my girlfriend.

For me, love means loving an imperfect person perfectly, and love will progress into marriage. Love without marriage is mere lip service.

I love my girlfriend.

Love,

Mr. S

I never know what the future brings
But I know you are here with me now
Well make it through
And I hope you are the one I share my life with

I don’t want to run away but I cant take it, I don’t understand
If I’m not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am?
Is there any way that I can stay in your arms?

If I don’t need you then why am I crying on my bed?
If I don’t need you then why does your name resound in my head?
If you’re not for me then why does this distance maim my life?
If you’re not for me then why do I dream of you as my wife …… ?

I don’t know why you’re so far away
But I know that this much is true
Well make it through
And I hope you are the one I share my life with
And I wish that you could be the one I die with
And I pray in you’re the one I build my home with
I hope I love you all my life

I don’t want to run away but I cant take it, I don’t understand
If I’m not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am
Is there any way that I can stay in your arms?

cause I miss you, body and soul so strong that it takes my breath away
And I breathe you into my heart and pray for the strength to stand today
cause I love you, whether its wrong or right
And though I cant be with you tonight
And know my heart is by your side

I don’t want to run away but I cant take it, I don’t understand
If I’m not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am
Is there any way that I can stay in your arms?

Love,

Mr. S

Cubalah! Usahalah!

A few years of glory is waaay better than a lifetime of misery,
Living and later regretting that, kita “mungkin” boleh berjaya jika kita cuba.

Go for that dream jobs,
Go for that dream careers,
Go for that dream girls,
Go for that dream degrees,
Go for that dream travel,
GO FOR THAT SCARY DECISION.

GO!

The worst can happen, we can fail. Even if we fail we can be satisfied and we can say:

“I Have Had My Moment!”

I have no regret cause I already know how it feel, living my own dream.

Don’t be afraid.

When I first met Ms. H parents, our relationship is not at it best actually. I went to Ms. H home as a surprise, even Ms. H didn’t know I will come. And I am relieved that her family accept me well. I planned my visit to coincide with lunch and I ate with his father.

The food are simple but tasty, just like what I always have at home. We can feel the mother love in the food. The dishes are a simple “Ayam Masak Merah” (or is it Sambal Ayam?) and taugeh with Ikan Masin. If Ms. H is not there, I will help myself with the 2nd and 3rd servings. :p

During the visit, I brought “Jambu Batu” (Guava) as buah tangan which I bought at Tapah R&R. I planned to buy Jambu Madu, (Ms.H fav) but apparently its not in season yet.

I felt very welcomed and at home there, and if not for Ms. H angry stare, I definitely will stay longer and come more often!

Love,

Mr. S

I beg to differ.

Yes, if your loved one has did something that offend you and there is no possibility of reconcialiation at all, then you are well advised to move on.

However, if you don’t know what happened and suddenly your relationship is going through storm, you should be man enough to stay the course.

Listen to what other people has to say, but take it with a pinch of salt. Commit to seek the truth.

And never ever punish your loved one for something you yourself does not understand.

Love,

Mr. S

p/s: To understand is easy, just ask your loved one, he or she should be able to explain with no problem if he or she is really sure what he or she wants or feels . But if that doesn’t help or he or she is confused too, you should be stronger and try to save the ship. Even if you are alone (at first).

” Many people go from one thing to another searching for happiness…But with each new venture, they find themselves more confused…and less happy untill they discover that what they are searching for is inside themselves…and what will make them happy is sharing their real selves with the one they love…”

Love,

Mr. S

I don’t know how to dress up, and I stil prefer necktie with stripes pattern when Ms H told me, its years outdated already. And her friend even told her (while shopping for my necktie with her friend) and she nodded in agreement when she hear it;

Kesianlah sape boyfriend pakai tie garis-garis camni (at that time Ms H didn’t know that her bf indeed an ardent fan of tie garis-garis!)

But recently, I tried to dressed up at the critical moment;

• When I need to do presentation (that carry huge marks)
• When I think I have to be at my best charming self (for whatever reason it may be)
• When I need to submit my assignment late :p
• And of course, when I met with Ms H

I found out that I got a much better treatment when I dressed up. Really. Especially from the opposite sex. While, I am not really chick magnet, and I didn’t try to be one. But I think you know, there are times in our life where we need to be at our charming best. And when this moment come, you may want to remember this post. Don’t be afraid to dress up!

My definition of dressing up is (you might laugh at this, but it’s all true)

• Brown beach tshirt (My choice, highly approved by Ms. H)
• Jeans
• 3 shots of Elizabeth Arden 5th Avenue my sister give me (I know its for women, but I like the flowery scent)
• Hair (Gatsby wet look water gloss-soft)

And I feel I can conquer the world in it!

So, dress up!